THERE IS NO LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT FRIENDSHIP!

The right reason for a person to get married is that you get married because you are looking for a FRIEND.A wife is not there to serve but to compliment a man.After choosing between Culture and the Bible  ,it becomes easier for a person to know which is there truth and the lie. There is nothing frustrating than marrying a woman  who will not be a friend.

We Zulu's,Tsonga's,Sotho's.Venda's,Swazi's,Xhosa's ,when we get Born Again we then preach that we hate dating.In reality dating is meant to help the two persons meeting to Discover if you have a friend in this person.A friendship must be built,you do not meet over night and become friends.Friendship has also levels.They that belong to God are led by the spirit of God.It is God who leads you to a real friend.

In dating,be real to each other,do not hide your real self.So that you will built on a proper foundation.It is out of this relationship that you will know that you have a life partner.It is out of this relationship where love will emerge.THERE IS NO LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT FRIENDSHIP!
Do not spend time in waiste living in dreams,start on preparing for the future now,prepare for your marriage.

If it started on friendship,you will just say come marriage-enjoy.In reality a man does not owe you,if you get married for wrong reasons such as money,fame,high standard of living you will not make it in marriage.That is why you will have to be independent,have your own properties,be self sufficient.

There are three important stages before marriage. 1.. Friendship

                                                                   2.. Dating

                                                                   3. Courtship


Friendship

You start observing each other to see if this will  work out.Starting as friend,you observe each other,do you have a common goal,are you going the same direction?does your vision connect at some stage?where do you see each other in 5 years time from now?




Dating

This must be done in an exposed place where everyone can see.It must done in a Godly manner.In that restaurant,be safe by all means-be able to control your self.

Coutship

When are you getting married???
What type of marriage you are taking?
Why?


Do know that what makes life interesting is that we are really not the same.Can you ever imagine how boring life would be if we were the same.Diversity built unity,we become one because we are different.If we are standing opposite to each other,I hold your left hand by my right,I also hold you right hand by my right.It means that when you are weak I am strong.

Marriage comes from God and the purpose of marriage is friendship.You do not marry a woman because you want to control her but because you love her.

WHAT DOES NOT START WELL IN THE FOUNDATION,IT WILL BE WISE TO DEMOLISH IT.

Marriage needs qualities more than money.

(With Special thanks to Pastor Chibuse from Limpopo)

Regards,
Sizwesamazulu Zulu
(No Fancy Word,
  No fancy design
 Only Love in Red and Whie

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